Not really. Generally, selfishness is taking at the expense of others. By not grouping a druid, I'm not taking anything away from him or her. They are in the same condition they were before they asked me. Nothing was lost. And if you want to claim that they lost on the potential extra EXP that they would of gained by leveling with me, i would confidently assure you that you can't lose something you never had to begin with.
I didn't say i never grouped a druid, but you better believe when the grind started getting tough, and i watched that bar slowly progress and my lixes i paid for with real money disappear, damn right i didn't group druids.
Blame OTM, not me. They've known about this problem for years. And have done little about it.
And hey, wasn't it Aileron who told me that i can't tell him how to spend his money when i criticized him for paying to play all this time while continually complaining about the same problems that never get fixed ... well, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
When i buy lixes with real money, i get to decide how to use it.
Hey children, nobody is ENTITLED to my stuff. Go vote for Bearnie. If I have a TV, and you don't, i don't have to let you borrow it. That's not selfish. Your not entitled to it. And when your watching my tv... that means i cant. Just like when i buy lixes with real money, i expect a return on that investment in the form of an already calculated growth of EXP. Im not selfish if i don't want that investment diminished. I can't be selfish with something that i bought and owned to begin with, and you were never entitled to share in.